DESIRE TO UPDATE !!!!

We have to have a burning desire to update our life, as much professionals do in their profession.

Ignorance is the cause of all unhappiness. Ignorance about every thing.
Though we have enough sources of informations , we do not use them to the full.

FEAR OF SUCCESS !!!!!!!!!

We are often scared of our own success. Due to this fear , we may reject good opportunities.

Success takes us to a different level. This creates doubts in us, as to whether we will be able to handle the new situation.

Self esteem help us to handle this.

ONE ON ONE BASE !

True relationship is based on one-on-one basis. Nobody is superior or inferior. Both should respect the others right to opine. Both may not have a common view on many things, but that's because , two different minds process informations in two different ways.

FEELING OF REJECTION !!!!!!!!!

Handling the feeling of rejection is one of the biggest challenges every one faces in daily life.

Every one goes through this , regularly.

People with high self esteem don't have this feelings, they are immuned to this !.

PAIR OF B**BS , T R U E FRIENDS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

True friends are like that!
 They grow together. Even when, one is a bit slow in growing, it doesn't affect relationship between them. No jealousy !.
They may kiss each other, but they don't clash each other!.

They always keep a ' private space ' for themselves...... never invade the space of the other.

They live together and die together !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GETTING INTO OTHERS' MIND !!! ( GOOD ACTORS )

If we can get into other's mind , we can avoid a lot of conflicts.

The best actors do this . They get into the body ( body language ) and mind of the character they play.

But, the same actors may not use this ability in their personal life, though it is very helpful............ that's how careless we are! .

PERCEPTIONS AND FEELINGS !!!

Our feelings depend on our perceptions. Therefore, it is advisable for us to know, how other people perceive things . If we can do that, we will be able to have a good rapport and understanding with the other person.

Needs a lot of practise to really experience the feelings others in our body and mind.

People with high self esteem know this . It's very natural to them.