BEING HUMAN !!!

'' Being human '', is the biggest challenge for any ' human being '!!!

It is the responsibility of any human being to lead the life, ' being human' in all aspects.

No one can claim to be a real human being , without being human !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CELEBRATING BIRTH DAYS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Celebrating more and more birth days doesn't mean any thing , other than ageing !

It is sad that many people, with ageing do not gain in experience.

Such people remain the same as far as internal development is concerned.

If we do not try to acquire the right kind of knowledge , with the right intention to use it for our own growth, we won't feel comfortable in life.

If our intention is to use the knowledge against others, we are actually failing ourselves !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Here is where , we need to be really matured !

SINGLE POINT LEADING TO MAXIMUM BREAK-UP IN RELATIONSHIP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Break-up, may be temporary, happens in all relationships !

The one and the most important reason for such break-up 

is '' not growing up in relationship ''.

One person doesn't grow up ......when this happens, the other

person feel the frustration.

This continuous frustration causes break-up in relationships......

..................relationship of any sort :--

between                      girl friend - boy friend

                                  husband - wife

                                 brothers

                                 sisters

                                 friends

                                 parent - child

EVEN A CHILD NEED TO GROW UP ACCORDING TO

HER/HIS AGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Living without awareness and not having the desire to have

knowledge is the reason for this........

Update on living and knowledge !

HUNGER FOR APPRECIATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!W

We all have an appetite for appreciation.......every body wants it on a daily basis.

But, with maturity , we know, we need to work with good intentions, whether we get appreciation or not. Our work is not based, only on appreciations, we have  to lead a life with responsibility too !!!!

MATURITY DOESN'T ALLOW US TO SIT IDLE, WAITING FOR SOME ONE'S APPRECIATION TO START WORK.

Immature people live in glass houses, with the appreciations filled...................doing nothing..............wasting their time !!!

WE ONLY FAIL OURSELVES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We only can fail ourselves, by our mind set.

When we think , we are a failure , we are a failure...........

This thought of being failed , fails us.

No one else can fail us.

This doesn't mean, that , we can sit idle, doing nothing and hallucinate that we are fine, and are successful.

We don't have to attach too much importance to  words like, failure and success.

All that we have to do, in this world of opportunity is, to work for a better life............this attitude brings us what we look for !!!

When we try to prove that we are this or that to others , we are losing focus on what we have to do !!!!!!!!

GOOD PARENTING..........

In this world of abundance, parents overfeed their children.

They give all that a baby cries for .

These babies remain babies, when they grow up..........they grow up physically only !!!

These people continue with their cries, expecting to get more and more from parents !

The cries may take ugly turns like abuse and showing tantrums !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FEED THEM WITH LESS FOOD AND MORE RESPONSIBILITIES...........................................IN CHANGING WORLD, WE NEED TO CHANGE THE PARENTING WAYS TOO.

OR ELSE , WE ARE CREATING IRRESPONSIBLE AND UNWORTHY CITIZENS , WHO LIVE LIKE PARASITES........A BURDEN TO THE SOCIETY.

THIS IS A SITUATION, WHERE THESE PAMPERED ONES, DON'T EVEN  KNOW ,''WHAT THEY ARE LIVING FOR''.

SUCCESS & SOME MISCONCEPTIONS !!!!!!!!!!

For some people, success is all about materialistic possessions.

They try to measure success by counting and weighing , how much they have acquired or what all they possess .

They are the least bothered about the spiritual side or the lighter side............being a good human being !

They do not bother about fulfilling the roles of being,whoever they are supposed to be in relationships.

These people are incapable of giving love to their own people,because they have misplaced ideas about success !