DISCONNECT WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is common with negative people to disconnect with positive people....................for fear of improvement happening .................improvements in the dictionary of negative people mean , change and change is scary for any one, especially the negative ones !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SENSE OF BELONGING , IMPORTANTLY MISSING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are social animals, and we can never be totally individualistic....................... unless, of course, we are at the highest level of self esteem !!!

Many people , disconnect themselves from family culture, social culture and organisational culture , due to missing of, 'sense of belonging'    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

These people compare themselves , with others and find themselves , not enough to be in the groups , and feel inferiority complex .............................................................thus the disconnect !!!!

GIVING PAIN TO EXTRACT OWN NEEDS !!!!!!!!!!!!

Some people use pain and irritations to get what they want !!!

Giving pain to a beloved one is the shrewdest way to get whatever...................... these people know that unconditional love is a weakness of the beloved .............so exploit it !!!

At times kids do irritate their parents for getting attention and whatever they want !!!!!!!!!!

SADISM OVER HAPPINESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some people prefer sadistic pleasure over their own happiness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wonder why ?................... giving pain to others and feel good about the achievement is far easy than making effort to feel happy about self  !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TAKING FOR GRANTED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nothing can be taken for granted !
People take , unconditional love for granted...........leading to disaster  !!!!

SELF ABUSE FOR SYMPATHY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Sympathetic attention is one thing , the people with low self esteem cherish !!

In order to get sympathetic treatment from others, such people go to any extent to abuse themselves............to project themselves to be in a pathetic situation !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ABUSE , A SHREWD WAY TO DIVERT MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Abuse is a shrewd way to divert mind ....................from real issues 

Immature do it unknowingly !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Professional abusers know it and do it shrewdly !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!