TAKING SELF ' BEYOND '.................

Although we have the capacity to take ourselves to any level -mentally, we are attached to the pleasure of being where we are - lazy state provides  pleasure enough for our  ordinary state of mind-  good enough reason to feel content and satisfied.

Is that all we  the higher being should look for and live for? ; sad leaving this universe in such manner if it is allowed to happen so .

Should we thrive to go beyond, or not is a matter of choice that is to be taken by every one from an appropriate state of mind !

OBSTINACY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Obstinacy is a protection cover - it protects one from changes !
Change is uncomfortable for almost all ; comfort zone is the most precious place one cherish the most.

Blocking and resisting changes are the functions performed by stubbornness . Effective unlearning process along with new learning only can bring necessary transformations .

Even after making positive changes, people do not want to acknowledge it for fear of the unknown !


People will try hard to retain the known style which made them feel comfortable for long ; however, a well installed new learning process will automatically take care if it is done effectively. Therefore, it is worth investing in new learning process .

PARENTING PROBLEMS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Parenting problems cause all problems:parenting more often is reactionary or precautionary, at times proactive !

Reactionary since nobody gives himself/herself the time to learn what parenting is all about, thus leaving things to the mercy of reactions:reactions do not solve problems or prevent them. They may help to suppress the issues which will erupt later with all might-very visible every where !

Reactionary method suppress problems where as precausionary method creates suspicions and utter confusions in children's mind : destroys self esteem.

Proactive methods create restrictions which force the children to go into their shell only.

It takes lots of time and effort to learn good parenting;however, it is not impossible.Therefore, allow some quality time to self.

CONFIDENCE ?,NO, THANKS !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Confidence , oh yes, every body wants to have....yet it is not welcome: it has an unpleasant attachment -responsibility !

Responsibility is a huge put off for all human beings- it's an unbearable burden that kills the spirit of life ! Living with this baggage gives a feeling of heaviness which makes oneself immovable holistically - a better option is : just keep an unreachable distance from it !

Is worth considering so? Well, it's matter of perception and choice - a choice that makes the life sweet or bitter!

It may sound hard initially; however, it's worthless leading an irresponsible life. Therefore, let's welcome the big word 'Confidence' and keep it within us that makes our life worthy !

COMMAND AND YOU GET IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Knowledge and Talent can command and demand whatever you are worth.....delays in acceptance by others may happen, but it sure will happen; nobody can deny the  dues forever - keep the faith and spirit going and you go places !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ADDING KNOWLEDGE INCREASES PERSONAL VALUE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is worth not getting stuck in life saying that life is boring....any thing we keep on adding finally increases the over all efficiency since the knowledge flows around and in circles sophisticating and polishing the brain cells !!!!!!!

NOBODY WANTS TO EDUCATE OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The big picture about human life is that no one wants to educate others and make others mentally independent !!!!!!

This is so because independence mean no exploitation possible !!!

Every narrow minded (almost all) lives on exploitation theory!!!