THE ONLY THING THAT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR MANY !!!!!!

What comes so easy to a handful of people in the whole world - may be that assumption too is wrong - is impossible for the rest : Self Acceptance !

It is quite evident : every one is frightened to accept himself/herself ; for this impose a heavy burden on them.....the burden of being independent and individualistic.

Practically every one is apprehensive about the consequences of welcoming personal achievements, successes and happiness !!!!

Moreover , people with vested interests won't allow others to 
be '' individualistic ''  -  because such people fear that they would lose control over others ; that's where they play the 'cultural card ' to deter them .

Should we lead such a passive life controlled by others, or  begin to accept self and lead a happy life is the question of the day !

'HAPPY', ALL THE WAY !

Happiness is ' the ' thing that is being sought after by every human being without any exception -day after day, night after night. It is never found as much as one would like to..

It frequently visits and vanishes ; makes one wonder what really is the route to the  ever lasting bliss .

This happens due to one's inability to define ' happiness ' !!! Although every one experiences it through feelings , even when not sought after,   the very definition escapes our faculty .
  
Some thing worth pondering over - damn sure it is within everybody's reach if only we use the grey matter that every one has between the two ears !

TAKING SELF ' BEYOND '.................

Although we have the capacity to take ourselves to any level -mentally, we are attached to the pleasure of being where we are - lazy state provides  pleasure enough for our  ordinary state of mind-  good enough reason to feel content and satisfied.

Is that all we  the higher being should look for and live for? ; sad leaving this universe in such manner if it is allowed to happen so .

Should we thrive to go beyond, or not is a matter of choice that is to be taken by every one from an appropriate state of mind !

OBSTINACY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Obstinacy is a protection cover - it protects one from changes !
Change is uncomfortable for almost all ; comfort zone is the most precious place one cherish the most.

Blocking and resisting changes are the functions performed by stubbornness . Effective unlearning process along with new learning only can bring necessary transformations .

Even after making positive changes, people do not want to acknowledge it for fear of the unknown !


People will try hard to retain the known style which made them feel comfortable for long ; however, a well installed new learning process will automatically take care if it is done effectively. Therefore, it is worth investing in new learning process .

PARENTING PROBLEMS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Parenting problems cause all problems:parenting more often is reactionary or precautionary, at times proactive !

Reactionary since nobody gives himself/herself the time to learn what parenting is all about, thus leaving things to the mercy of reactions:reactions do not solve problems or prevent them. They may help to suppress the issues which will erupt later with all might-very visible every where !

Reactionary method suppress problems where as precausionary method creates suspicions and utter confusions in children's mind : destroys self esteem.

Proactive methods create restrictions which force the children to go into their shell only.

It takes lots of time and effort to learn good parenting;however, it is not impossible.Therefore, allow some quality time to self.

CONFIDENCE ?,NO, THANKS !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Confidence , oh yes, every body wants to have....yet it is not welcome: it has an unpleasant attachment -responsibility !

Responsibility is a huge put off for all human beings- it's an unbearable burden that kills the spirit of life ! Living with this baggage gives a feeling of heaviness which makes oneself immovable holistically - a better option is : just keep an unreachable distance from it !

Is worth considering so? Well, it's matter of perception and choice - a choice that makes the life sweet or bitter!

It may sound hard initially; however, it's worthless leading an irresponsible life. Therefore, let's welcome the big word 'Confidence' and keep it within us that makes our life worthy !

COMMAND AND YOU GET IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Knowledge and Talent can command and demand whatever you are worth.....delays in acceptance by others may happen, but it sure will happen; nobody can deny the  dues forever - keep the faith and spirit going and you go places !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!