NOT READY IN LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Our preparation should be an on-going and continuous thing.

There are many , who wait for some thing to happen , for them to prepare, for the event.

The fact of the matter is that , we can't prepare after happening of the event............means , we miss the opportunity in life.

After missing the opportunity, we complain about every one , every thing and our bad luck.

This mistake is being repeated by many, through out their life.

PLAYING ,GOOD BOY, GOOD GIRL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We all want to be seen as , ' good boy ', or ' good girl '. 

That is fine.............but , if we are doing every thing, with the above intention only, then there is a question mark about our sincerity !

Those who do good things , naturally , will stand out in the crowd, without them knowing it !

We need to develop an in-built mechanism, to do good things, very naturally.................without having the agenda to project the good boy/girl image .

EGO OVERSHADOWS EVERY THING ELSE !!!!!!!!!!!

Some one may be extremely loving, caring and helpful .

But, when ego dominates, all the other good things are over-shadowed.

If a person carries all good qualities, to satisfy his/her own ego, the purpose  defeats oneself !!!

ATTITUDE IS WHAT MATTERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We may have talents, we may have potential, we may have resources, but, all these go waste, if, we don't have the right kind of attitude.

Without positive attitude, we can't do justice to our potential.

The main difference between successful and others, are the positive attitude !!!

LIFE IS ALWAYS ABOUT GOOD PARTNERSHIPS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Life is always about the best of partnerships.No individual member can claim victory of a team............it is always , a team that wins and not an individual !!

Scoring goal in a football match is that wins the match........but , no one can score a goal without being facilitated by all other members of the team !!!!!!!!!!

People with, low self esteem only will claim credit for themselves, whenever they score points in life ......... 

It is important to be in a team and in partnerships , starting with family.........as charity begins at home, it should begin at home .

ACCEPTING GOOD THINGS .......................

Accepting good things, like love, help, appreciation etc. from others , need self confidence/self esteem.

People of low self esteem, are not comfortable in asking for help.........so too, not comfortable , when they are being loved.

They think, that , such things happen , when they are weak...........and , they don't want to portray themselves to be weak !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

EXPOSURE COMPLICATES LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Too much exposure complicates our life..........we get confused with the options available to us.

Unless we match our mental growth with the type of exposure, we will be lot more unhappy with the choices available to us.

This confusion was not with the older generations, since, they had limited options, and they were living by the roles , that they were supposed to play...........less complications !!!!!!!!!!!!