DOING FOR FAME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People , low on confidence do any thing, but, only for fame and not wanting to do !!!!

COMPETING WITH ''GHOST'' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Non-confident people are restless to prove some thing to others and self !!
They have this urge to prove that they are better than others !!!

This strong urge to prove, leads them to be in competition always............ they assume some one is in competition with them....... they have an assumed person/ghost , who follows them !!!!!!

AVOIDABLE PRESSURE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Most of the people , most of the time get the pressure at home !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pressure at homes are avoidable by living with awareness !!!

COMPULSIVE NEED TO DOMINATE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Stupid and worthless people have this compulsive need to dominate others, especially those who are worthy !!!

This dominating ways leads to frictions and pressure for all parties involved !!!

DIRECTING TOO MUCH LEADS TO STRESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many, in relationships give too much of directions to their partner...................... this leads to stress for the person , who receives the directions !!!

Directing and correcting won't help to have smooth relationship !!!

EGO BLINDS US !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ego doesn't allow us to see the reasons properly......... it doesn't allow us to see the other side of the world !!!!!!

EGO OVER LOVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wonder how many sacrifice love for safeguarding own ego !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DON'T TRY TO CORRECT OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No body likes corrections of behavior by others !

Women, try to do it more , in relationships...... men too try, may be bit less !

Since, ego is involved, correction with good intention will bring bad taste !!!!

EGO, THE EPICENTER OF ALL NEGATIVITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

All negative emotions, like anger, jealousy, refusal to grow etc. are flowing from .''ego.''

REFUSING TO GROW UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many people refuse to grow up.........growing up is pain for them because, grown ups have more responsibilities.....responsibilities are burden and pain for such people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ATTENTION SEEKING DUE TO NON-CONFIDENCE !!!!!!!!

People on low confidence are the attention seekers ...........

for them attention is like a fuel, even the wrong way !!!!

SELF BELIEF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Self belief in positive things , is the fuel to get ahead in life ..... of course , not to confuse with arrogance !!!

MIRACLES, YES , WITH CHANGE OF MINDSET !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Changing from negative positive mindset, we can turn around any thing............ in to miracles..........need to be completely positive and doing things without grudge  !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

feeling nice , being lazy !!!!!!!!!

It is human, feeling nice , when in a lazy state !!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is not human, being lazy and criticizing others ..... definitely not human , being lazy all the time without contributing to self , family , society and the universe !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CHANNELIZING EMOTIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Emotions need to be channelized in positive way, if the appropriate results are to be achieved .......

disorganized and scattered emotions are worthless !!!!!

MODERATE EMOTIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Emotions are to be moderated, if we want to have a balanced mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Extreme emotions upset the balance of mind ............................

BEING TOO HARSH ON SELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The perfectionists are too harsh on themselves.....they refuse to forgive themselves , even on silly mistakes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

...... not good and not necessary !!!!!

FORGIVING SELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We all commit mistakes, it is human !

At times , it is difficult having gone through things like that , especially when we want to be perfect !!

The only way to get out of this feeling of guilt, is by forgiving self !!!

EXPECT ANY THING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This world can spring up with any thing and options are plenty and every thing is in abundance.....life is never boring and without expectations or hopes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

MIND THE PRIME ,'CREATOR' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Since mind creates things primarily/prior to the creation physically, positive approach is the only way to achieve any thing in life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I DON'T CARE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

''I don't care'', is a convenient attitude for escapism !!!

How can any one,  be not caring of the people around, and the universe he/she is living in ........... this is a way to shed responsibilities towards the beautiful world, we are living in, and ultimate selfishness..........

do care please ......................................

NEW DOORS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

New new doors are opened always for positive people ........... they never find life difficult.............

They are always on the look out for progress and opportunities, which they find easily !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIVING BY FEELINGS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Unfortunate, people do not use their thinking faculty, which is available to human beings, only !

Majority are living by their feelings, exactly like animals......... at low level of mind !!!!!

COMMUNICATING WITHOUT KNOWING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We don't have the patience to know, what is in our mind ,before we communicate..........causes communication gap, misunderstanding !!!!!!!!!!!!!

NO DESIRE TO LEARN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Learning is the most happy thing, any one can do .......... but, excepting a few, nobody has a desire to do so !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thus the unhappiness in life............. people using their time to update do not feel boredom and unhappiness !!!!!!!!!!!!

LEARNING , AN ADDICTION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Learning new things and acquiring as much knowledge in any field must be like an addiction , if our lives have to be useful to the next generations............thus feel happy and self satisfied !!!!!

NOT BOTHERED TO KNOW THE REAL MEANING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We, often do not relate our thinking and communication to the real meaning.............. thus confusing with similar things with different meaning !!!!!!!!!!!!!

This take our lives to different directions unknowingly !!!!!!!!!!!!!

NEGATIVES HAS NO CHANCE OVER POSITIVES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The WIN belongs to positives always !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Negatives can never win a battle !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NEGATIVITY SHRINKS INTELLIGENCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Taking negative positions as a way of life shrinks our intelligence !!!!

Only open minded attitude helps us to make new routes in our mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SHRINKING INTELLIGENCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There is no scarcity of any resources today !!

We feel the scarcity due to our own scarce use of our intelligent faculty !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The less we use it , the more is the chance of shrinking it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WITHOUT COMPLAINTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Developing a mindset , which is free of all complaints is the best way to look ahead and move forward in life...........those , who can move forward in life are the happiest people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HAPPINESS DEPENDS ON ................................

Our happiness depends on our attitude.... how positive we are !

and Ego........... how much we are free of ego !!

MASTERING THOUGHT PROCESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mastery over our thoughts are very important, if we want to create the required results !!!

This is possible with persistent practice with interest and not hard try !!!!

SOME NEGATIVES ARE GOOD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh yeah, useful to use it as a weapon and behave immature way !!!!

Useful to skip responsibilities and live like a child !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gets attention thus !!!

SOME STRESS, 'GOOD '.......''NOT AT ALL ''!!!!!

Some people say,'they work better under some stress'!.......this is an excuse for procrastinate things !!!!!

Excuses are for selfish reasons !

No stress is good........... there is nothing called positive / negative stress !!

SOME EGO, GOOD....''NOT AT ALL !!! ''

Some people say, 'some ego is good, it motivates them.''

The real intention is selfish , that they don't want to leave ego !

This is like, ' people,  who do not want to quit drinking says.. 'a peg a day is good for health'.

The hidden intention , now , we all know !!

SUPERSTITIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Even in 21st century , many, that too the so called educated people have superstitions.......... they are not educated, but, literate only !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DISCRIMINATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Human beings are only, capable of discriminating themselves !!!

Human beings do this inhuman things for their own selfish reasons !!!

Selfishness is like cancer, affecting the thinking faculty !!!!

ABUNDANCE IS A PROBLEM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are living in a world of abundance, but that is a problem too , when we can't handle it .........................

CHOICE IS OURS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are living in a world with full of choices , as never before !!!

This creates confusions, but it is better to have choices and confusions, rather than not having choices ...........

make right choices !!

LIVE AS THE PRODUCT, WE WISH TO BE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Living with the characteristics of the one , we want is a way of achieving what we want !!!

This gives us the right focus and satisfaction......