HAPPY NEW YEAR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

'Happy New Year'.to all those who visit this site and thanks for their support !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SELFISHNESS , THE CURSE ...............

Being selfish is so much in nature ! But breaking away from it is what is known as enlightenment !!!

People with high self esteem don't think about self.....they see the largest picture about humanity and try to work for it !

Small minds crave for self and always try to score points !!!

IT'S NOT EASY TO CONVINCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Can't convince any one about any thing by words.........

If at all , only with appropriate actions and behavior.........

NO MIND OF ONE'S OWN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People leading a slavery life in the mind ...do not mean to be arrogant and not listening to valuable advice....won't feel good any time because such people are doing things for others happiness.....................

Same time those who live to prove something to others and do stupid things against reasons too won't feel good !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CAN'T HAVE BOTH NEGATIVES AND POSITIVES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Positives and negatives are exactly opposite.

Hence, we can't have positive things happening in our lives as

long as we carry negative thoughts in our minds !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

INFERIORITY COMPLEX, ROOT CAUSE OF ............

All problems start with inferiority complex and end with it !!!

The big mouths and boasters suffer from this   inferiority complex syndrom  !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pity those guys !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIVING BY SUBCONSCIOUS ACTIVATION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This , if possible is the most wonderful and fulfilling way of living !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EITHER A SLAVE OR AN ENEMY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lack of self esteem leads people to extremes .............this leads to  either too much dependence or hesitance to amiable relationship !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PEOPLE WITH HALF KNOWLEDGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with half knowledge try to correct others who are experts in their field !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People of knowledge are often forced to keep silence to maintain decorum ..................................

IRRITATING OTHERS IS AN ESCAPISM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Conversations with the intention to irritate others is a way of escapism...........those who are not confident of being natural take this route to escape !!!!!

IRRITATING OTHERS , A SURE WIN POLICY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

Some people have the habit of irritating others as a matter of their way of life.............a sure win for them in the short term.................but for sure , they will be the biggest losers in life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GETTING AHEAD THRILLS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's a great thrill to get ahead in life.....................it's real fun , who doesn't like fun ............lazy ones !

LIVING WITHOUT VALUES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When we don't know our own values , we don't know the directions in our lives !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

JUMPING INTO PARENT-HOOD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many skip adult-hood and jump into parent-hood straight from child-hood !!!!!!!!!!!

Adult-hood is pain for many due to the preparatory process and   the responsibility factor !!!!!!!!!

Imagine the plight of those kids from such people !!!!!!!!!!!!

PAIN GIVING , SIGN OF INFERIORITY COMPLEX !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People with inferiority complex always find a way to pain others..................if not possible they do it to themselves !!!!!

CONFIDENCE METER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Confidence can be measured easily by observing one's conversation with others ................. people with ultimate self confidence never talk rubbish about others, they don't try to find fault with others, they are completely free of gossips !!!!!

People with inferiority complex center their conversation with others...........faults and negative sides of others !!!!!!!!!

Even when there is no negativity in others, such inferiority suffering people find some thing to paint as negative !!!!!!

EDUCATING EDUCATIONISTS, DIFFICULT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many educationists say, 'quote' ''think out of box''.

But they are the ones who do not do it at all..........so it's only in 

the books to deliver the sentence to students !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NAME MATTERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Change of name may lead to change of behavior !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Change of family name after marriage mostly lead to change of

values and thus change of character !!!!!!!!!!!!

ONE MAN ARMY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If we want to bring about positive changes in this society where people do not want to do away with conservative thinking, we need to work as 'one man army'...............of course it takes time and a lot a patience !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EDUCATION IS NO MORE ABOUT MENTAL DEVELOPMENT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mind development programs are no more important to educational institutions and hence all sorts of problems even among the so called successful people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EVERY FIELD HAS GOLDEN PATH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This world has abundance in any field.........it's a matter of patience and perseverance !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF WE DON'T SHAKE THEM UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Negative people misunderstand the goodness of positive people for their weakness.................may need to give them a jerk and shake them up drastically !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ESCAPISM , COMMON THING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No one is immune to escapism..........sad !!!!!!!!!!!!!

EGO, EVERY ONE HAS IT IN LOTS !!!!!!!!!!!!

This is one thing that can't be taken away from any one because every one suffers from inferiority complex !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CAN'T CHANGE THOSE WHO ARE SCARED OF CHANGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Change is scary for negative people............so can't change !

They want to complain about some thing/some one always .......

21ST CENTURY AND SUBSTANDARD STUFF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It seems people like things of their standard which is substandard !!!!!!!

The real people are not heard, appreciated ..... may people do not want to brainstorm !!!!!!!!!!!!!

FAITH, COMFORT AND SECURITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Faith gives comfort and security for people and hence do not want to move away from that ..........................................

BLIND FAITH, SECURITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Blind faith is a matter of necessity for those who do not have high self esteem..........their illogical faith in some thing or god men is a necessity as a protection cover !

Taking away those things amount to insecurity.....thus it is impossible to be self confident !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WEIRD SOLUTION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Going back to stone age living is the solution suggested by many so called living gods for the problems of today !!!!!!!!!!!

Good business for such people by brain washing others......they know that millions are lazy to work and move forward which require efforts !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thus many followers...........leading passive life...rather living on doles and others !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

REMOVING NEGATIVITY CAUSES INSECURITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Can't remove negativity because it amounts to making a person insecure !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LAZINESS , THE ROOT CAUSE OF WEAKNESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are weak when or because we are lazy.......we are lazy to change our negative mindset to positive !!!!!!!!!!!

Negativity is a sure emotional security for lazy people !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EXPLOITATION OF WEAK MINDS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People without high self esteem are weak in their thoughts ...... hence they need some power to hang on for security...... there we have enough mediums acting as facilitators ...... thus the exploitation !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SENSE OF SECURITY AND CHANGE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Change is a matter of moving away from security for majority of people ........ self esteem is the way !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

COOKING IN COLD OWEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Doing things without preparing mind into positive mode is like preparing food in the cold owen  !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHY DO WE FIGHT ????????????

Because of inferiority complex...........created by situations  !!!

TRIGGERS V/S THOUGHTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Very few people use thinking faculty..............most live by triggers that prompt them to behave in a particular way !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CAN''T ACCEPT NICE THINGS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is weirdly unbelievable that people can't accept that nice things can happen to them.............leads to sabotage and prove otherwise !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BELIEF SYSTEM, THE CAUSE OF FAILURE

We need to get interested in what we want to do and not having belief systems as the base of what we are doing.

Belief system confuses when it is not possible to have a balanced system !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THE YOUNG AND INSTANT PLEASURE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This generation doesn't have patience............they must have instant pleasure from wherever it comes regardless of long term adverse impact !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thinking faculty is kept at garage permanently !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CHANGING SELF V/S CHANGING OTHERS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Self change is scary and no body wants to change ..........

but, wants to change others !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MINDLESS LIVING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

All sorts of media rule our lives !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Media decides what is good for us and they create hype and 

ordinary minds fall for it ................ end up unhappy !

The one who is happy and laugh away into banks is the media !!!

........... and some commercial houses !

Wake up and use our thinking faculty for happy living !!!!!!!

INSECURE WITHIN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Internalized insecure feeling is the one thing that has to be broken , if we have to move ahead !!!!

EMOTIONALLY NEGATIVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Negative attitude takes us to destructive emotions.......this block us from being emotionally intelligent !!!!

Emotional intelligence is really important for growth and for becoming a complete person !!!!!!!!!!!!

MATCHING MIND , THE MOST DIFFICULT THING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Being at the same level of mind is the most difficult thing .......no wonder people find it difficult to get the right person to be with !

MENTORING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wish I had a mentor some years ago............but only the right one !

Not having one is better than having a wrong one , of course !

But, a person who knows things can take any one to high levels in life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mentoring is really really an interesting but very challenging too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

CURSE OF WRONG INFLUENCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People allow themselves to be influenced by wrong people...........imagine a world where there was no religion and race at all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NO MORE '' THINKING'' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

With internet and gadgets taking over of reading habits, there is a fear that the human race may lose the ability to 'think' !!!!!

Too much of visuals in daily life make us fools !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BLOCKING LOGIC !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Intense emotions block logic ........... people can't see even the nearest and the best for them !!!!!!!!!!!

SADISM, A WAY OF SURVIVAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Till a clear positive layer is opened in the mind. sadism too is a way of survival for sadists !

Can't confront them......................understand them !!!!!!!!!!!!!

SCORERS IN THE LIME LIGHT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Want to be in the lime light , score ..........

Providers of opportunities are neglected in society....pity !!!!!!!!!!

HEALING ABILITY OF OUR MIND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Real and total positive mind can heal any thing beyond imagination.............talking from personal experience after an accident and fracture.... doctor was surprised at this !!!!!!!!!!!!

MENTAL AGILITY & BRIGHTNESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Agile mind only will brighten up our lives.......soul needs some thing to feel happy and good about !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Passive life, more often suggested by so called gurus, take us to depression !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

POVERTY,THE SADDEST THING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The thing that makes human being the saddest is poverty !

Then loss of own children !

Then the mental poverty !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

INFERIORITY COMPLEX , THE ONE WORST ENEMY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The root cause of all evils are inferiority complex.....some one with inferiority complex will do any thing without thinking about the consequences of  his/her actions !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ENGLISH CLUB !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

English Club , that will help non-English speaking people to improve their language on google hang out....possible idea !!!

PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We ignore the psychological aspect, which is a part of all that we say , do and express !!!!!!!!!

This causes a lot of unwanted results ................

THINK, THINK AND THINK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sad to have many who do not think at all , but they think, they think !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People live by emotions and not by logic........for them logic is what they feel they want and they must get it or else get depressed( sorry, I do not like to use the word depressed)...used to make others understand.......

Even in elections, people go by emotions....any where in the world..........obviously choices turn bad...May us be saved by ?

ADD VALUE TO LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If only we add values to our lives, we will be happy ! 

We need to lead active life !

Gurujis suggest passive life for others so that they can have

every thing for themselves............common get out of this

 slavery, this is 21st century !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SUPERSTITIONS & BLIND FAITHS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many Indians do Laxmi Puja for wealth..............

But world's richest men never new about it perhaps !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SHARING A SMALL THING CAN CHANGE THE WORLD !!!!!!!

Thanks to all those who pass on my blog to others.......we can make huge difference to the world by passing on positive, useful information to others, like a long chain  !

Without emails, it is impossible to reply/help .

LIVING IN THIS WORLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Life is so beautiful, but we do not know how to live so  !

Seek knowledge in all aspects of life and see the turn around !

Life is beautiful even in situations we think are adverse....if only

we are zero negatives ......... the key to progress, sucees and happiness !

No blessings of gurus, winning of lotteries will help  !!!

Unfortunately , knowledge is not instant like in the above mentioned cases..............so it is boring for ordinary people !

WASTE OF HUMAN RESOURCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Only a very few percentage of  population lead an active , constructive life !!!

Majority are leading a submissive and passive life.....thanks to the word,''culture'', which is being shrewdly used by smart people to meet their end !!!

Passivity means waste of the most valuable asset/ resource..human resource !!!

RESTLESS TO PROVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many are very restless to prove that they are better than others !!!

The advantage of this is that some work is being done due to this motivation !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HELPLESS !!!

It's just a feeling !  No human being ever is helpless .

Turning to what can be done, situation changes quickly  and there you are !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EMOTIONAL BANKRUPTCY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Human beings almost are on the verge of emotional bankruptcy !!!

In many families, education is no more important................

DEBIT & CREDIT , MADE EASY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Google hangout made teaching easy...........

lfourlawrence@gmail.com is the contact id   .....

Hangout is really changing the way we see the world !! thank you google !!

EQUALITY....................... A BIG NO, NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nobody wants equality to happen !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Exploitation of others is in the system and it is a necessity for human beings ; it is a matter of convenience and turn !!!

GOOGLE HANG OUT , A NICE TOOL TO TEACH !!!!

Hats off to google hang out !
Helps teaching subjects like accountancy , easy way !!!