we argue when our self esteem is at the lowest, because our only aim is to prove something to ourselves and to others.
Our aim is only to score points and satisfy our ego. Thus , we lose out on opportunities to learn from debate/discussion and self improvement .
People with high self esteem, listens more and try to extract more from debates.They focus on subject matter and not on scoring points......... thus helping themselves to be in calm and happy zone !
" NOBODY WINS AN ARGUMENT. BECAUSE THE WINNER LOSES A GOOD FRIEND " , l4lawrence
Our aim is only to score points and satisfy our ego. Thus , we lose out on opportunities to learn from debate/discussion and self improvement .
People with high self esteem, listens more and try to extract more from debates.They focus on subject matter and not on scoring points......... thus helping themselves to be in calm and happy zone !
" NOBODY WINS AN ARGUMENT. BECAUSE THE WINNER LOSES A GOOD FRIEND " , l4lawrence
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