People ,after receiving help from some one , feel uncomfortable and obligated !!!
Much worse is that they feel inferior because, they were in such a situation to ask for help.................. what will be the status in the eyes of the giver/helper .................
This insecurity and inferiority lead to bad blood and thus lead to spoiling of relationships .............. this is why people say, ''nobody should be helped'' !!!
Unless we are confident about ourselves as to our own status in the eyes of the other , we should not take help !!!
..............should know how to receive help graciously and continue with the relationship...................
MUST ACCEPT THE FACT THAT, EVERY ONE NEEDS HELP , SOME TIME OR THE OTHER IN LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Much worse is that they feel inferior because, they were in such a situation to ask for help.................. what will be the status in the eyes of the giver/helper .................
This insecurity and inferiority lead to bad blood and thus lead to spoiling of relationships .............. this is why people say, ''nobody should be helped'' !!!
Unless we are confident about ourselves as to our own status in the eyes of the other , we should not take help !!!
..............should know how to receive help graciously and continue with the relationship...................
MUST ACCEPT THE FACT THAT, EVERY ONE NEEDS HELP , SOME TIME OR THE OTHER IN LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!
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