We have a permanent base for all our conversation ! This fact is not known to us. Therefore , communications do not produce the result, we look for !!!
People develop this base depending on their desires, needs and their experiences.............no one is aware of this fact and confusions and disappointments happen.
When I am trying to extract a particular response from the other person, I am not in the present topic !
When we do not get in to the topic, the communication goes haywire !
Therefore ,we need to start our conversation on a neutral base and it should end with neutral feeling !
It has to be like , we start our driving with neutral gear and stop with neutral gear ! And we have travelled miles in between and must have reached our destination clearly !
People develop this base depending on their desires, needs and their experiences.............no one is aware of this fact and confusions and disappointments happen.
When I am trying to extract a particular response from the other person, I am not in the present topic !
When we do not get in to the topic, the communication goes haywire !
Therefore ,we need to start our conversation on a neutral base and it should end with neutral feeling !
It has to be like , we start our driving with neutral gear and stop with neutral gear ! And we have travelled miles in between and must have reached our destination clearly !
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