Many have told me not to help any one. When I ask them , why ?, they say, ' the very people , who you help will turn out to be thankless, and on top of it, they may become enemies ' !
Well, if we don't know the psychology behind this thankless and often rude behaviour , people are absolutely right !
But, the fact is that, these people , who were helped feel a sort of
obligation. Then again, they feel that they were weak and they
don't want to accept the very fact , themselves !
Therefore , they get confused, as to how to escape from a sort of
embarrassment..........mind you, it is only in their own mind !
PEOPLE WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM CANNOT ACCEPT
HELP, WITHOUT FEELING AWKWARD ABOUT IT !!!
Once we know this, we should help them to feel comfortable
and let them know that , there is no one in the world , who has not taken some sort of help.................therefore it is normal !!!
Well, if we don't know the psychology behind this thankless and often rude behaviour , people are absolutely right !
But, the fact is that, these people , who were helped feel a sort of
obligation. Then again, they feel that they were weak and they
don't want to accept the very fact , themselves !
Therefore , they get confused, as to how to escape from a sort of
embarrassment..........mind you, it is only in their own mind !
PEOPLE WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM CANNOT ACCEPT
HELP, WITHOUT FEELING AWKWARD ABOUT IT !!!
Once we know this, we should help them to feel comfortable
and let them know that , there is no one in the world , who has not taken some sort of help.................therefore it is normal !!!
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